Advice

A little advice, take it or leave it your choice, I just want to at least help prevent other people from ending up in my bad position and other couples from breaking up.

Before stepping in any relationship, get to know them first, go back to the basics, that’s what dates are for, you don’t have to have sex on a date after all.

Get to know them, stop using dating apps and dating sites, if you just want to get laid then go ahead and be my guest but for those who want a relationship, get to know what they are looking for in a relationship first so that you know your on the same page before things get too serious.

If things don’t work out with that relationship, take some time before jumping into another one. This advice is mainly for those who want monogamy. Take sometime to learn how to be happy with yourself and that does not mean that you need to completely isolate yourself. If there’s something that you don’t like about yourself, improve it, always be better then the person you were yesterday.

Before anyone ends up looking for a relationship, be happy being you, if loneliness is your fear then overcome it not by isolation, spend time re-getting to know yourself and learning what you want by dating yourself, take yourself out to places, you don’t need someone else to adventure “around the world” you just need you. Like the video in the “Being Happy Single” link states: treat yourself how you would treat your partner and turn yourself into your ideal significant other.”

You have to be “the one” for you